Wednesday, February 9, 2011

30 Day Challenge: Day 1

I cam across this 30 Day Challenge, and thought it would be fun to do it!


Your current relationship, if single discuss how single life is.

I'm currently in a relationship with my T. We met in high school when we were 12 years old, went to the prom together, lost touch after College, and only recently became a couple- our anniversary being the first day of summer 2010.

Our relationship can be described by the words loving and supportive. We daydream, vent, plan, laugh and cry together. We write each other notes, send texts of hugs & kisses throughout the day, and always hold hands where ever we go. We allow each other the necessary space and support to pursue our own projects and inspire each other to do better.

On Friday January 28th, T moved to Colorado for work. It's a great opportunity for him and I'm super excited and proud (if not a little envious) of all the experience he'll gain and the adventures he'll have. Though being apart will be difficult, I know that when we do see each other again, holding hands will mean so much more.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Congratulations to you on finding your true love!!! Hope both of you will have a happy life together!!!

T said...

When we were in about grade 10 or 11, I had a dream about you. I dreamt that I went up to your room, and you were gone. There was just a computer with an open word processor, and I remember looking at the blinking cursor, in my dream, and feeling heartbroken for the machine. That foolish cursor would forever blink, waiting for another keystroke from you -- one that would never come.

Looking back, I think that computer in your room symbolized me. The dream terrified me so much, that I think in a way, I made a decision to distance myself, in order to never feel that kind of heartache again.

It took me 10 years, but I finally realized that by distancing myself, I had done something far more foolish: in running away from the fear of losing you, I also lost the joy of knowing you.

I won't ever making that mistake again.

Love you, girl. <3

Anonymous said...

Well written T! It brought tears to my eyes.